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Mother’s Day and the Straight Spouse

Mother’s Day and the Straight Spouse

Here’s to the women who dreamed of being wives and mothers, who fell in love, married their sweetheart and then… discovered the marriage was a sham. As a result of your relationship with a man you discovered was gay or transgender, you may have lost the opportunity to...
Somebody That I Never Knew

Somebody That I Never Knew

Unless you’ve been living under a rock, I’m sure you’ve heard the song, “Somebody That I Used to Know” by Gotye. You probably know at least some of the words and find yourself joining in when the song plays on the radio (even if the only words you know are the...
My Husband is Gay: Should I Watch Grace and Frankie?

My Husband is Gay: Should I Watch Grace and Frankie?

When you discovered that your husband was gay, it probably didn’t feel much like a ‘sitcom’! Unlike the Netflix hit series, Grace and Frankie, your problems couldn’t be fixed in 30-minute episodes, and you probably didn’t have much to laugh about! For that matter, you...
Marriage INequality

Marriage INequality

Let’s talk about marriage equality, marriage INequality, and mismatched marriages. In 2017, the Australian government conducted a national postal survey asking eligible voters the question: ‘Should the law be changed to allow same-sex couples to marry?’ 13...
The Sound of Silence

The Sound of Silence

We all have stories to tell. True stories about our lives. There is something incredibly validating about having our stories heard and validated. Unfortunately, straight spouses and partners of trans people are often silenced after discovering their partner is...

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