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A Straight Spouse Article in DARE Magazine!

A Straight Spouse Article in DARE Magazine!

I’m so grateful to journalist and author Sue Williams and DARE magazine (Australian Seniors) for shining a light on an experience so many of us know intimately: discovering, later in life, that a partner isn’t who we thought they were. The article,...
Navigating Pride as a Straight Spouse

Navigating Pride as a Straight Spouse

For many people, Pride Month is a celebration of freedom, identity, and long-overdue visibility. For some straight spouses, though, June can feel… complicated. Heavy. Even painful. If you’ve been in a relationship where your partner concealed or denied their sexual...
Motherhood Interrupted: Shaped by What Was Hidden

Motherhood Interrupted: Shaped by What Was Hidden

Mother’s Day tends to hold space for many things: celebration, ambivalence, gratitude, grief, and, for some, a quiet, desperate longing. We acknowledge the beauty and weight of motherhood, the complexity of maternal relationships, and the pain of those who hoped for...
Married to a Stranger

Married to a Stranger

In her latest podcast interview, Oprah spoke with Belle Burden, the author of Strangers: A Memoir of Marriage*. The book is currently Amazon’s number-one bestseller in the divorce category, and certainly has Oprah’s stamp of approval! My heart skipped a beat...

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