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R U OK?

R U OK?

Here in Australia, yesterday was R U OK Day. R U OK is a suicide prevention charity that encourages people to connect with others and have meaningful conversations to help them through difficult times. The main event is an annual day where people are encouraged to ask...
Pride Month and the Straight Spouse

Pride Month and the Straight Spouse

*Updated for 2025 Pride Month Pride Month is often difficult and complex for straight spouses. I’ve created a Pride Survival Guide to help you through, but first, let’s take a moment to acknowledge the realities of pride month and the straight spouse. Many...
Hey Straight Spouse, are you MAD AF?

Hey Straight Spouse, are you MAD AF?

As straight spouses and partners of transgender people, we often find ourselves in situations where we are shamed for feeling angry. This can happen when people tell us that we shouldn’t be angry at our ex because they were victims of homophobia. Anger shaming...

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